“City Girl” Dishes on Dating and Her Diagnosis

Anonymous sex and relationship blogger “City Girl” started blogging to share her escapades with friends, but found a philanthropic purpose for her posts when diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this year.  At her “Save the Tatas” fundraiser Tuesday evening at Hudson, City Girl dished on dating and her diagnosis.


“Some of my favorite stories to tell are first date stories – they are great to hear because everyone can identify with them.  But in my current condition, I’m sharing a lot of more personal posts, posts about the TLC that I need.  If you hit me chemo week, even a sex blogger can only represent so much!”

An anti- toxic “toy” advocate even before her diagnosis, City Girl fought to show the relationship between such toys and cancer.  Though her own cancer was most likely hereditary, she agrees that it was in some ways a fortunate coincidence that someone with her platform would have the chance to write about the ordeal.  

“I realize why this happened;  I was meant to get this now.  I have a lot more to do, to educate and to advocate.  But it’s a hard time right now – everything people say about cancer, it’s true.”


*A version of this post is available on Niteside.